Meet some of the people the Christmas Exchange has helped in the past.

We thank them for sharing their stories.

George

George did everything right. He went to University and has two degrees. He got a job; got married and had two children. After working for over 35 years both in Canada and abroad, George became ill and had to be hospitalized. His illness landed him in the hospital for a period of time and he ended up no longer able to work. He now lives on a disability pension having depleted his life savings and RRSP’s to pay the bills.

In his letter of thanks, George says, “When you’re on a small disability pension, like me, the nature of the gifts you can give your children and the nature of the food you can celebrate the season with is restricted. The Christmas Exchange certificate that I received helped me to enjoy some festive meals while still being able to provide some nice presents – easing the financial stress of the holidays. Many thanks to those involved.”

Sharon

In 1991 Sharon’s life was good. She had two healthy children and both her and her husband had secure jobs working for Sharon’s parent’s courier company, located in the basement of her parent’s home. Their future looked secure with Sharon’s parents intending to retire in a few years and wanting Sharon and her husband to take over their business.

One night, all of their hopes went up in flames when a fire at her parent’s home destroyed both the home and the business. Although they tried to salvage what they could of the business, within a year her parents were forced to sell and all employees, including Sharon and her husband were laid off. They were jobless with two young children and Christmas just around the corner. Without a steady income it was hard to afford the everyday necessities let alone a Christmas dinner and presents.

Sharon will always remember the overwhelming gratitude she felt when the Christmas Exchange food hamper arrived. She still gets choked up thinking about it.

Réjean

Réjean was about five years old when his family first received a basket of food, with a turkey and small gifts for all eight kids. He remembers thinking how nice the people were to give them these things. Although his father worked up to 16 hours a day as a trucker in the late 1950s and early 60s he made meager non-unionized wages. His low income made it difficult for him to provide more than the daily necessities leaving very little for special occasions.

At home with eight kids his mother worked just as hard, cutting down and remaking old shirts for the boys when their father had frayed the collars and cuffs beyond repair. Réjean remembers how happy it made his mother to be able to make a special dinner for her family at Christmas when the basket of food was received.

Because of his experiences growing up, Réjean gives back to the community by volunteering on several non-profit boards.

Colleen

Colleen led a comfortable middle class life growing up, attended university and became a financial analyst. Her middle class status continued after she married and became a stay at home mom of three small children ages 2, 4 and 5, and ran a small home-based business with her husband. Colleen’s life was turned upside down overnight when her husband of several years emptied out all their bank accounts, including the one for their joint business, and disappeared with the family car. With no job Colleen could not make the mortgage payments, car payments or cover the unpaid bills. She had no choice but to pack up what few belongings would fit into a couple of garbage bags and leave the family home with her three children. The unimaginable had happened and Colleen had to apply for social assistance. Putting food on the table turned into a daily struggle. It all happened a decade ago, but Colleen has never forgotten the surge of hope she felt getting a grocery voucher from Christmas Exchange that first Christmas on her own. Within six months Colleen had found a job and taken the necessary steps to get her family’s lives back on track.

Today, Colleen is happily remarried and her main concern now is to help others who have fallen on hard times through no fault of their own.

Geri

In the 1960s, Geri was a young, single mother with four children. Her eldest child was diabetic, her second child had asthma, and her third was epileptic. Geri had no choice but to work from her home in order to care for her children because daycare was rare and expensive. The added cost of medication and insulin needles led to a higher cost of living.

Every year, Geri’s children would give her their Christmas Wish List and every year she would be unable to afford even the smallest item on their list. The food voucher she received from the Christmas Exchange each December helped to stretch her budget so that she was able to get a small present for her children. Geri’s children are now parents and are supporting families of their own. She is thankful every year for the help she received and gives back to the community by volunteering regularly.

Maxine

Unexpectedly in the 1970s, Maxine became a single working mother. She had two very young boys to care for and no family in the area to give her support. Rent was cheaper outside of town, but that forced her to hitchhike weekly into Ottawa for groceries. These struggles left her with no time or money to think about Christmas for her sons.

When Maxine received help from the Christmas Exchange, she no longer felt like she was alone. “I was so moved I wept through the night — but they were tears of joy, knowing that someone … recognized me as a worthwhile person and no longer a stranger.” Maxine has since made it her life’s work to improve the lot of the homeless and hungry and has received two awards for outstanding service to the community.

Lucette

Lucette was retraining for a new career in high-tech and was only two weeks away from graduating from her computer-programming course. On the eve of the job interview she had been looking forward to, she was sitting in the front passenger seat of a friend’s car when they were hit broadside by another vehicle. Although the air bag released, the force of the impact severely injured her from the neck to her hand. She was still recovering 8 months later.

Lucette’s life changed in an instant. Because she had not yet started work, she did not qualify for insurance money. This was why the food voucher meant a lot to Lucette. Wanting to make the best of a situation, Lucette learned more about the Christmas Exchange and volunteered at an event. “I know from many years of volunteering that one of the best ways to feel better during life’s difficult times is to do something to help others.” Lucette continues to make the best of her situation, volunteering and working when she is able to, between corrective surgeries and periods of rehabilitation, and looks forward to the day when she might be free of pain.

Judy

Judy’s mother had seven children and worked very hard to support her large family in the 1960s. Her stepfather tried his best too — when he was sober. There was not always enough for the basic necessities. At times, there wasn’t even enough food for lunches. Judy sometimes pretended to forget to bring her lunch to school so her younger siblings had some food.

It was difficult enough during the year but Christmas was especially hard for her family. When Judy was about ten, her family received help from the Christmas Exchange. This excited the whole family, making her mother cry with joy. Remembering the difference it made in her life, Judy is now a dedicated supporter of the Christmas Exchange.

Diane

Diane had made a good career as a hairdresser — until she was afflicted with arthritis so severe she was forced into a wheelchair. Hairdressing was no longer an option. That same year the voucher from Christmas Exchange helped Diane to prepare a holiday meal for her recently widowed mother, her son, who had recently lost his job, and an elderly neighbour whose apartment had recently been destroyed by fire.

Diane got great comfort from the thought that complete strangers were willing to help her through the Christmas Exchange. Just knowing people cared gave her so much hope. Since she could no longer make a living as a hairdresser, Diane studied at Algonquin College to become a biomedical technician assistant. She also volunteered at the Christmas Exchange to give back to a community that in her words helped to encourage people like her.

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